Where is Happiness?

I just to find out from people what they think about happiness, their thought towards happiness, then I meet Many people my friends ,family members, and people who are around me……I get very shocking answers about happiness because no one is happy in their life. because they do not find what is real happiness.

Happiness Is in a good career…..

I met a couple, who both are working in the software field and generate the best income, their married go through against their family.

I asked them both to achieve more in their life from a career point of view and in their personal life also, reached highs, earn more than they think, and are happy in their life. and they told me that there we are not happy because one of their colleagues joined in the same year when we joined in office, and now he gets an early promotion and settled Abroad earning more than us, because of the love marriage we are not getting support from our parents, we have not reached our goal we have more achievements to do so we are struggling, not happy in present life they answered like this,

Then I feel Happiness is in more earnings. think that they are very happy together, but they are not happy with their marriage and not happy with their earnings

Happiness is in earning more $

One of my abroad friends visited her hometown, I asked are you happy now you are well settled abroad and earning a good income, she said….

No Harika I am not happy I am not enjoying life one year back my father is expired, and I even not visited at that time because of a visa issue, to see our family we need a visa and procedures, I felt very guilty about that time, afterward, I am not doing my job happily, I am getting good income but I am not happy with this life.

Then I realize earning more and more dollars but happiness is not in dollars also!!! she is earning a lot of money but she is not happy with her lifestyle. because she doesn’t have enough time for her personal life…

Happiness is in living together

After That I saw one joint family, they looked very happy together, they had every problem shared and solved together, all festivals are celebrated together, it looks like every day is a celebration day,

I like that and ask one of that family members, every day you all are enjoyed a lot together happy family, Then That family member said no we are not happy, we just look happy, we have to sacrifice a lot of things for family, we can’t do anything with our own, we can’t spend time with friends, we can’t eat our wish dish, we have to prepare dishes based on thinking of all people on mind, after that answer, I shocked because they look very happy, but I get the opposite answer

After listening to her words I realize living together is also not happiness!!!! in joint family love, caring, fewer problems, people around us to share our griefs, happy movements everything, but she is not happy with that life.

Happiness is in leave separately

I Saw one couple with one child both working, earning sufficient income, and leaving their 1-year child in playschool when they went to work, and getting into the evening when they returned home,

I asked them You both are very happy nobody is there to give restrictions on you can leave however you want, you are a very happy couple, then they answered, because of busy life we can’t provide time for our child, it seems like mechanical life, not a happy life, so they also not happy with their life.

Living separately is also not happy life!!!! they don’t have family support, and they Cant spend time with their child, live with single-families also not happy.

Happiness is not in money not in love, not in a career, not together with family, not in living lonely then, I get more questions in mind

What is Happiness?

Where is Happiness?

How do we leave happy?

I sit in the park with these all questions where confused about where I get answers I don’t know

Then I watched a little girl she played with her toy with a lovely smile, I purchased one chocolate and give her, and she takes that chocolate and said thank you with the same smile, I asked her happy Then she told with her cute smile very happy, I saw the magical charisma on her face she is very happy with that chocolate,

happiness is in satisfaction mind

Then I realize what is Happiness, that little girl does not think much does not think about her past, and does not think about what the future gives to her, only leaves in present and she is very happy in present with her chocolate, she is satisfied with a little chocolate only, so her happiness is on her mind, she lives the minute with very happy.

Then I realize what is happiness:

Happiness Is living present

Happiness is living the movement where we are

Happiness is not thought of past and future living the minute is real Happiness

Happiness is in mind

Mainly Happiness is in our satisfaction things.

HAPPINESS IS IN YOUR MIND:

That little girl’s smile teaches me all questions which are in my mind what is real happiness, and where it is?

Life is a one-time chance to live happily so live happy with a happy mind.

if you put happiness in your mind you will be happy if you disturb your mind with the waste of scrap, your mind also is unhappy,

just forget the last sad minute and don’t think about the future minute live the present minute with happiness.

‘spread happiness with others, find happiness in every movement in your life, every minute is precious in life so by thinking of sad minutes don’t spoil your happy minute, leave the sad minute, forget about the future minute live the present happy minute’.

“Live with a positive mind ” spread happiness with a satisfying note, you will be happy every time.